Saturday, June 28, 2014

Tower 7

Does this look like something that would fail because the curtains were on fire?  This is what most office towers look like when you take the tiles out.  The failure of a column like this, "fueled by the combustion of office furnishings", is what supposedly led to the failure of the entire building, at the speed of gravity.

Can anyone with an IQ above room temperature fail to grasp this is farcical, impossible, stupid, ludicrous, an insult?


I wrote on my Facebook something close to: "Loyalty is a reciprocal virtue; or it is abuse.  No one need feel loyalty to anyone or anything that cannot or will not offer it back."

I said this after a discussion with an electrician who has been working 90-100 hour weeks.  The people asking him to do this don't give a shit, but he said that "when I make a promise I keep it."

This is a good sentiment, but can you see, in a painfully obvious way, how it can and is being abused?  These assholes don't deserve that level of effort out of him.  My current suspicion is that the GC, who is too lazy to even create a schedule, gets a bonus for hitting his date.

Most wars are fought by people that feel loyalty to people who, at the top at least, do not feel loyalty to them in turn.

There are many good people in this world, and a great many of them fail to grasp how many bastards there are.


I am increasingly of the opinion that most persistent anxiety is caused by unprocessed trauma, and that trauma is processed by activation and motion.

This is more or less the opinion stated here, shared by Barry McDonough [sp?], in a personal interview with an MD.  You lean in.  You pull the knife or circular saw in, as I saw in my breathwork session.  When you realize something terrifies you, you activate that fear, then move, in any direction.

Last night was awful for me, but I woke up peaceful.  I asked unconscious parts of me to process an activation of grief, anxiety, and this sense of unreality that had me wondering if I was going to lose it.  I fell asleep, but it was like I woke periodically to the sound/sense of battle all night long, with horrible shaking.  I got up about 5:30, did a relaxation exercise, and slept peacefully for two more hours.  The battle, I feel, is won, although tonight will be the first test.

We all have all the tools we need to process anything, although many will remain unaware of this across their lifetime.  This overwork, paradoxically, has been enormously good for me.  I am activating grief, then dissolving/releasing it in motion.  I am activating trauma, then dissolving/releasing it in motion.

Healing is work.  There is no other word for it.  It does not just happen.

But large segments of our unconscious know EXACTLY what we need, and are quite willing to provide it.

And I want to be clear that what I am discussing is mainstream psychology. I  am referencing techniques most good therapists use every day.


I am doing work at a large, publicly traded company I am tempted to name, because I am angry with them, but will choose not to, for self protective reasons.

They have a large rework of an Executive suite that was supposed to begin in January, but which they held off on, so as to make a LOT of revisions.  Work commenced some time in March.  The original deadline was July 1, based on a January start date.  They decided to keep the July 1 date, despite the delay.

This has meant numerous trades not only working 80-90 hour weeks, but also constant redoing of work already done, that has been damaged by other trades.  The painters, for example, have more or less had to paint the place twice. It is the second biggest cluster-fuck I have ever seen, and by far the largest preventable one I have seen.  There is no urgency, outside of the stupidity and cupidity of the top executives.  The punch list will be so long it may as well be viewed as on-going construction. The final, end date of absolute completion will 2-3 weeks AFTER it would have been, had a tough but sensible schedule been put in place.

Here is the point I wanted to make: pretty much EVERY trade has had fantasies of walking off the job, but chosen to stay because they need the work.  Choice, as in worker self determination and freedom, can ONLY come in conditions of economic prosperity.  Nowhere else.

In any negotiation, the strength of your position is your BATNA: Best Alternative to Negotiated Agreement.  This is the one idea of which I know that has originated at Harvard in the past 50 years that has been useful.

In conditions of economic malaise, such as characterizes every foray into socialism, your BATNA is shit.  You have no choice.  Workers are screwed.

And it doesn't matter if you have a union.  Unions make everything more expensive, and thus cause decreased overall economic activity.  Find me a Rust Belt, and I will find you States which allow unions to coerce membership.

It doesn't matter if you have protective regulations.  Workers who need the work are going to overlook abusive practices.

The ONLY thing which reliably empowers workers, which would allow these guys and gals to tell this large corporation FUCK YOU, you sorry, abusive sacks of shit who don't give a flying fuck about us, our lives, our safety or our families, would be plentiful economic activities elsewhere.  The GC would then be forced to actually treat them with some sense of fairness and consideration.

As always, the policies pursued by the Democrats and their apologists in the Republican Party work to disempower the very people they rhetorically claim to support.  The problem is that they don't really care.  They perhaps did at one point, but that was 50 years ago.

I will add as well that the root cause of economic malaise is monetary inflation and the wealth transfers it enables.  Everything else is window dressing.  Of course relative economic freedom is a good thing--we should in my view abolish corporate income taxes, for example--but if you ponder that 90% of our collective wealth has done to banks and the government over the past century, via devaluation of the currency, you should readily see this is the single most important factor.

Given sound monetary policy--such as the Germans appear to practice--we could all work less, earn more, and have more time for pursuing happiness as we conceive it.

Thursday, June 26, 2014


If you are unfamiliar with Robert Putnam, here is a place to start.

His finding, which he himself suppressed for something like 10 years, is that the more diverse a neighborhood is, the less people interact, and the less they trust one another.

"Melting Pots" are schools for isolation.

All of our problems can be solved, but only if we tell the truth about them.


The main difference between developed nations like the U.S. and Canada, and the rest of the world, is that we value honesty and hard work.

Mexicans, to take but one example, value family and leisure.  This is a stereotype, but in my own experience largely an accurate one.  When Americans are busting their asses to get things done, Mexicans are sitting around talking.  Where Americans, given the opportunity for corruption or theft, by and large do the right thing, Mexicans take bribes and steal, if the victims are not a part of their social group.

These two factors, and these two factors alone, are the principle reason that our nations differ so much in their economic success.  Put simply, it is as simple as math figuring out why nations prosper.  We trust one another, because most of us can be counted on to do the right thing.  Mexicans do not trust one another, because a great many of them cannot be counted on to do the right thing.  That is why their nation is so awful millions of them choose to abandon it and come here illegally.

One is not supposed to say these things, of course, but I am not saying anything many are not thinking.

How did it get so hard to speak the truth in public?

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Professional Spirituality

What honest teacher doesn't want to be confused with you?  It's all about the adventure, no?  It's about what you can figure out, not what you can be told.

I am tired and drinking, again.  But I will say again this life is endlessly fascinating.  My god there is so much to see and experience.  And even the ugly is glorious.

That sad looking kid on the bus, three rows back listening to his iPod?  He can teach you something.  And you can teach him.

Go to it!!!

Endless Compassion

Starting to get in touch with my own trauma is enabling me to see the world in a completely new way.  Everywhere I look I see unhealed trauma.

I got into a minor pissing contest with someone today, who I have gotten into similar situations with before.  I look at him and all I see is a severely abusive father, and probably some sexual paraphilias of some sort.  He is a mess.

To the point, something pushed the present moment away from him, like a raft or life preserver that could have saved him from drowning in water that terrified him.  Nothing was there.  No one saved him.  And so he goes on, attacking the world, controlling the world to the extent of his ability.

For my part, of course, I am a bit vain and oversensitive.  I whine more than I ought to.  I'm working with guys whose work ethic I cannot but admire.  One electrician told me he had a severely strained groin muscle.  The doctor told him to stay off his feet for three weeks and ice it up.  Instead, he is working 80 hour weeks.  He is a better, tougher man than me.

I am still processing a story a guy I met in a bar told me last week.  He is a mortician, and his company does body pick up.  The cops find a suicide or homicide or simple death from natural causes, and after they have mapped out the scene, he takes the body to the Medical Examiner.

2 weeks ago he had to haul away two women, mother and daughter, who had had their home broken into, been ducktaped to chairs, and beaten so severely with something that their heads were gone.

The person or people who did this are still walking the streets, as far as I know.

Feel the horror of that image, then imagine, if you can, which is doubtful, a horror ten times that within the person who did that, a fear and sense of utter and complete powerlessness so overwhelming that it drives you mad.  You break, you stumble, you fall, and you never, ever get back up.  Your brain decays until it takes all your will and powerful intoxicants just to get through the day.

Morality in many respects is psychology.  The task is not to set rules, but to help people understand how the world works so that they can make good decisions.

And some people are so far gone they cannot be redeemed.  They can only be imprisoned or put to death.

That, at any rate, is the present state of our technology.  Perhaps one day methods can be devised to help even homicidal psychopaths deal with the absolute tyranny with which their souls are governed, by evils they likely in most cases can't even recall.

This is random, but I felt I needed to post it.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Love and Service

My gut tells me that to love people effectively, you have to open an emotional corridor, a connection; and you can't be afraid of what comes out, or the corridor will shut; the communication at that level will cease, even if verbality (neologism of the day) continues.  We can always talk about feelings, and say the simple and banal things.

To be capable of deep love for people who suffer deeply, you must be capable both of suffering deeply, and TURNING IT AROUND.  Pace, then lead.  That is basic NLP.  No wave is too large for the brave.  Let it break on you, then counterattack.

And I think to myself that if goodness is taking pleasure from the happiness of others, service of the sort most religions call for is really an act which brings pleasure.  We assume, mistakenly, that the deepest pleasures are those we generate for ourselves and ourselves alone.  But why do we think and feel this?  Why can't I be HAPPIER, say, that my kid is happy, than in any other activity I can think of?

Nothing in this universe demands of us abject servitude, or unrelenting self abnegation. These are human constructions, derived from sadists and other malefactors.

The equation is simple: give up the easy and immediate for the harder but much, much better and longer lasting.

Goodness of this sort is not different in principle from the test sometimes given to 4 year olds, in which they are offered one cookie now, or two cookies in an hour.  Those who held out for two cookies scored very substantially better on the SAT 13 years or so later, and were better adjusted.

Ayn Rand's mother made a similar proposition to her when she was about 3.  She had to give up a favorite doll for a year, if memory serves, to get 2 a year later.  Rand chose to do this, but her mother forgot about it, and had thrown away her doll.  That in my view is the ultimate source of Atlas Shrugged.

Life is endlessly fascinating.  How much we can see if we only look.

I am happy at this moment, and wish you the same.  It is quite possible for all of us.


Ponder for a moment the sheer practical uselessness of intellectuals.  They think, they talk, they write, they fret, but even if they wind up in political office, the actual WORK is done by other people.  Their practical power is purely theoretical, purely abstract.

And I think this is the point.

Unprocessed trauma (our stereotypical egghead gets bullied, but the trauma certainly can stem from childhood or other trauma, such as a failure of maternal bonding) breeds intellectualism--emotional dissociation, detachment--which finds its natural resting place in places where abstraction is valued.  If you look at a typical English department, or Philosophy, or Sociology, or Cultural Studies, or Linguistics, etc., what you will find is that they generate almost nothing of any practical use.

English, for example, might teach people to express themselves well, and in theory could help people learn to feel more deeply, but practically what seems to happen is that they are given an open license of open ended, completely useless navel ruminating.  Foucault, Derrida, de Man, Ricoeur, Habermas: what fucking good are these people? If they had never lived, never written, what difference would it have made?  Clearly, they would have needed to be invented to facilitate emotional avoidance through intellectualism, but the names and words don't matter at all.

Here is the thing: actual, practical impotence leads to fantasies of power. It leads to fantasies of global government, global Fascism under some kinder name.  It leads to the empowerment, in the abstract, of the intellectual, who by means of his or her ideas becomes not just relevant, not just important, but powerful.  And from this they derive the sense of personal meaning that otherwise eludes them.

This psychological dynamic underlies most of the very preventable misery which happened in the 20th century, and which may yet happen in this century.

It is in my view clinically accurate to describe Leftism as a mental disorder.


99th percentile for my age, and if I'm honest I have to say my suspicion is that Lumosity is mainly used by white collar professionals.

There is some room for bragging, right?  I'll take my victories where I find them.

Sunday, June 22, 2014


Driving home tonight I felt again the presence, the possibility of a deep joy, that is analogous to the best sex you have ever had, but so much better that the sex feels weak and inauthentic.  What wild connections are possible, how much deeper we can all go, how much fun it is to be alive, to breathe, to undergo the adventure.

I can cover leagues with a single step, a life in a breath.

Yes, I am drinking, but it only makes me more honest.


I'm sitting here listening to music, and noticing the effect "it" has on me.

Can anyone  argue that we are infants, stupid, ignorant, just-at-the-beginning, when it comes to understanding the complex interactions of various sorts of music, dance, and mood?

Brainwashing, coercion: these are likely more advanced than I like to think.

But elicitive techniques, those which pull out, which facilitate expression, self creation, re-formation, joy formation: we are primitives.

And the primitives are likely advanced.

Never, ever, ever assume you know what needs knowing. You are likely a dumbass of the first order, not having even reached the level of being capable of learning.

Certainly, that applies to me.

Who can imagine the heights the human race can reach, if it ever applies its full creative instincts to qualitative joy, to Goodness, to harmony, peace, and the death of wars of various sorts?

I am a Humanist.  I do not believe we are the measure of all things.  That would imply many bad things about the things.  But I do believe we are, relatively, perfectable, that social life is perfectable, that many useful things are knowable that are not yet known or sufficiently widely practiced.

I think we need to keep plugging.  We need to keep trying.  We need to foster hope and accomplishment.  Believe more is possible, and dammit if it doesn't show up on cue.

Positive Resonant Constellations

We, I, think of Condensed Experience or Resonant Constellations as the aggregation of negative experience; but why could we not build positive Constellations, such that happy memories trigger other happy memories?

This whole happy thing is a bit new to me, but I am running with it.

There is a cycle of releasing trauma, but also of building the opposite.  I have tapped into all my underground reservoirs; I feel confident in this.  I have connection.  All the parts are in communication.  No part is forgotten.  Now my core self needs to build a home filled with light and love.

That no doubt sounds odd and vague.  Shit, I'm still figuring it out.  It will take time.

Saturday, June 21, 2014

A Lucky Day

I've been working a lot of 12 hour days lately.  I have a few drinks on the way home to relieve the pain.

I watch people.  That's what I do.  I talk to people, listen to them, listen and learn about their stories, their beliefs, what defines them.

And what I see is pain all around.  Most every person you deal with during the day, or see walking down the road, or who changes your oil: they have demons, traumas, they have not dealt with.

I look at our world, and all of us wandering around, crazy.

And I remember my job is to not be crazy, but to understand it.  And I go on.

That, my friends, is a boring drunk man's tale.

And if you are crazy, be good at it, then come home.  We will welcome you, perhaps for the first time ever.

There is so much love in this universe.  If we can but manifest a fraction of it, we can change the world.

I would give everything I have and am to learn this skill.

Friday, June 20, 2014

World Cup

I am going to avoid intellectual posts for the time being, but this occurred to me.  It is an interesting fact that at least in my own personal space, the World Cup is most popular among internationalists, people who tend to self identify with "social democracy:", with what we call Liberalism in this country, mistakenly.

What connection does the Cote D'Ivoire have with soccer?  Colonialism.  Soccer--Football--is an export a great many colonized countries choose to continue.

It is a cultural meme, repeated.  It is something We created, and which They want.

Oh, when will we pursue It, Goodness?

All the abstractions float, hover.  They exist as possibilities in minds, as thoughts that could move.  We in turn live by rote.  We assume of today what we assumed of yesterday.

I am so dumb.  So are you.  I will try to remember this tomorrow.   Will you?

Here is a random link:

Maybe not fully random.

Mild Brag

This thing that has had me is breaking.  I can feel it.

I will return momentarily to this task, but feel a need to permit myself a small brag.  I reached 1395 on my BPI for Lumosity today.  It's not 1400, which  is a goal I have set, but I feel the need to brag, to assert myself.  It's 98.9th percentile for my age.  On Attention I am at 99.5, which is as good as you can get with their system.

It is worth noting as well that these percentile scores are among people who USE Lumosity.  It is likely safe to assume that only roughly the top third of Americans use it, so that score is even better.

It is perhaps a bit pathetic to feel the need to point this out, but part of my healing will be, I think, openly asserting myself more often and more directly.  I have never had a place in the room.  Now I will.

Thursday, June 19, 2014


I texted my oldest, on the verge of a Major Life Event, that "life is an adventure, and an adventure is just difficulty and stress that you accept, laugh at, and learn from."  I will be honest and admit that I had the Walter Mitty movie in mind.  It was cliched in some respects, but cliches exist because they usually represent abundant realities.

Well, I am having my own adventure.  I sent that in part to myself.  I just cancelled all my Facebook news feeds, and am going to put myself, to the extent possible, on a news fast.  I am going to try and see my new therapist twice a week until most of the horror is gone.  As I believe I've shared, the movie which best represents the emotional tone of my family is "Texas Chainsaw Massacre".  When I told that to the last therapist (who is in another State, hence the new one), she said "we may have some work to do." [I will add, can we not assume that Toby Hooper had his own share of trauma, that this movie came from somewhere, and not somewhere pleasant?]

As I've shared, I like to think of myself as a Master Sergeant, as a professional NCO, but not yet at the fully politicized level.  I try to do my work well, silently (you can laugh out loud at that), and with full commitment.

I am relieving myself of my operational duties for the time being.  I am not going to fight anyone on anything for a while.  There are others who can and will take my place.

Wednesday, June 18, 2014


Logically, if the "spiritual" path is about increasing pain tolerance, then pain is a principle method.  This of course has long been a precept of many religions, and is the basis for all asceticism.

At the same time, pain is so often replaced as an end, rather than a means, that one can rightly question how well it has been used in most religions for most of history.

Everything useful can be made harmful.  All good ideas can be perverted by applying them too much or too little.

Let me frame this in 21st Century terms: all of us must come to terms with all traumas, large and small, in our past, and we must learn the skill of emotional processing, even of difficult information.  This is the task both of individual and social maturity.

Once this is done, expanded perceptions become possible, and those, in turn, facilitate further growth.

This is the model I am convinced is "correct", to the extent one can apply a word like that to abstractions.

I will add as well, that this model precludes the Sybaritic path of assuming life is meant to be easy, and that only circumstances prevent us from being happy.

That last sentence is a paraphrase from a book I found immensely useful at a certain point in my life, Garth Woods "The Myth of Neurosis".  Easily one of the five most useful self help books I have ever read, with others being "Learned Optimism", "Trauma and Recovery", and "The Drama of the Gifted Child." I'd have to think about number 5.

The Middle Way

The purpose of asceticism is to accept asceticism.  Once this has happened, it is no longer useful.  Mere austerity is quite sufficient, and that only to avoid an overabundance of things you might miss.

Buddhism is first and foremost a psychological process.  Whatever we call "spirituality" is simply a continuation of the developed ability to see in this world.  The world simply expands; rather, your awareness of the size of this "world" expands.

I think of the monks sitting in their caves for 3 years.  Do you not think powerful feelings of fear and fatigue and loneliness plague them?  Do they not fear going mad?  We tend, I think, to think of them as other than  us, but this is not true.  They merely go farther than most of us are willing to go, but they suffer for it.  Of this I have no doubt.  But that suffering has another side; it ends; it can be traversed.

But becoming comfortable with suffering: this is the asceticism of the soul, of the emotions.  If you can handle a lot of pain, you can process trauma as it happens, and leave it behind when it is done.  The value of this knowledge for your capacity for tranquility cannot be overstated.  Most of us know there are things that could happen that would deeply disturb us.  If we have already learned the skill of being disturbed, letting it flow through us--ripping us to shreds before we reconstitute--then we need fear nothing.

And fearlessness is life.


Scientologists audit one another to identify and remove emotional knots and unresolved trauma.  As I understand the method, one person is hooked up to the equivalent of a lie detector, while anothe reads words, to see what produces a reaction.  When one happens, they go into it.  How, I don't know, but Stan Grof talked about it as an abreactive therapy.

Scientology is a cult, but why could this process not be reintroduced and improved within an open, free, non-coercive setting?  Why could we not use this process to elicit reactions, then whenever an unprocessed memory comes up use EMDR or something else to process it?

We could add Multi-Dimensional Eye Movement, or a variant called Brainspotting.

Most of those who aspire to tyrannize us are filled with unresolved traumas.  If it is true, for example, that the Rockefellers want us all tagged with RFID chips, then this can only be the result a maladaptive sadism and power-mongering that is the direct result of emotional undernourishment and unresolved trauma.

No serious person can claim the "environment" is so endangered, or that overpopulation is such a risk, that a global tyranny is a rational, reasonable, humanistic, empowering response.  No: it is the response of sick, sick people who are unable to live happy lives.

This situation need not endure. It is possible to develop, in a gradualistic way, a more harmonious, healthy, empowering, GOOD society that will decrease its demands on the physical environment absent coercion, precisely as happiness becomes more available, and our economic system rationalizes in conditions of sound money.

Everything good anyone claims to want--a smaller global population, increased access to opportunity and wealth, a decreased burden on the environment and a less materialistic society--can be achieved without coercive government.  On the contrary, the government makes these things impossible outside of generalized inequality and misery.

No socialist can claim they value egalitarianism when their chosen method is an omnipotent and definitionally unequal State.

We can get everything good we want.  All the tools are there.  All the opportunities are there.  We just must deal with the reckless demons who never see anything they don't want to tear down and break, while claiming they value and love it.

Tuesday, June 17, 2014


Salvation lies in embracing what destroys you.  That was Part One.

Part two: prior to figuring out how to move forward Sunday, I felt an acute resentment at God and the world for inflicting such pain on me.  I understood, experientially, how a Sade could come to hate the world, hate the idea of Goodness, and subsist entirely on pain and suffering.

Part Three: I am riffing on Nietzsche, of course.  But his ideas were incomplete.  I would like to propose the following concept: the Philosophy of Unresolved Trauma.  If myth precedes philosophy, as I argued some 5 years ago, then trauma, as expressed in myth, in underlying, prerational, unexamined assumptions about the world, also precedes philosophy.

I am going to get this shit figured out, so help me God.

I just worked 16 hard hours, though, and I think that will suffice.  I am punchy enough.


I am the only one reading this post.

I don't know why I wrote that.  I am very tired, and it popped in my head.  I usually go with instincts, because if you don't feed them, they stop coming.

But I still don't know why I wrote that.  Maybe I'll figure it out tomorrow.


Read this and ponder its implications:

This supports perfectly my contention that the principle role of the DHS is militarizing our nations police forces, for no apparently useful reason, unless and until one assumes tyranny is an end goal, and the cooperation of LEO's in the suppression of the expression of dissent a means.

Monday, June 16, 2014

Christina Grof

I read today with surprise and sadness that the co-creator of Holotropic Breathwork, Stan Grof's long term wife and friend--Lebesgefaehrtin--has unexpectedly passed away.  I overheard him talking to her on the phone at a retreat, and there is no doubt that even after so many years he loved her very much.  That is such a beautiful thing, and I cannot begin to imagine the pain he must be suffering, because I cannot imagine the amount of love he enjoyed.  It is foreign to me. But I was glad to see it shown to be possible.

According to my world view of how things work, Christina was greeted with light and love and joy, and shown all the lives she touched for the better, including my own.  What a blessing.

Some people live their lives fit for heaven--not as angels, not as perfect beings, but as striving, trying, caring, giving human beings, who try to do what they can with what they have--and I feel she was such a person.

So much human progress comes in fits and starts.  Not many people in the  United States have heard of HB, but that is no reason someone like me cannot take it, modify it, and generalize it, and be able to do so ONLY because she and Stan were attentive back in the 1970's, and had the courage to experiment in processes that were wholly new.

All my current progress started with Holotropic Breathwork, and HB in turn started with her and Stan.

The Lebensgestalt they promoted in the idea of Spiritual Emergency has also been hugely useful.  I would frame it as: there is a back end to madness, a tunnel on the other side, an out, a way through.  That is hugely important.

I do wonder if the prevalence of depression in this and many other countries is not due in part to the ease of our lives.  Yesterday, I made myself move while in the thrall of gripping sadness.  Was this once common, such that many people experienced, albeit accidentally, what I did?

Oh, I know she will be missed, which meant she meant something.  The Holotropic Breathwork tribe is like a bunch of cats.  They hide somewhere, come down from the hills for retreats, then disappear again. I know well this thirst for solitude.

But her loss will leave a hole.  Those closest will mourn, and move on as best they can.

There are not enough good people in this world, and it hurts to lose them.  But as always let us use this as a reminder to do better, to be better, to carry on work which needs to be carried on.  Let us envision our best efforts ahead of us, and continue on, renewed in our inspiration by the beauty of the life that has fallen.

Tarot and my new therapy

Unbelievably--or believably, depending on your viewpoint--I have in roughly 8-10 weeks drawn the same card twice now three times: the Fool, the five of swords, and the 9 of swords, just now.

This, just after I decided to invent a new therapy for myself.  I am talking with the fear generating part of myself (this sounds crazy, but anyone who does deep exploration can readily see that our personality, until it is fully integrated, has "parts", and you can and should talk to them; this is easier done than conceptualized) and telling it that if it allows me to do anything or go anywhere without excessive fear, it is failing me.  It is not doing its job.  I am telling it to do its job.

I tell it, when I walk down this hallway, I want fear.  And I have been able to trigger shaking.  What I've noticed is the shaking builds, then subsides suddenly.  It has a run time, and my guess, based in part on the notions I read about in Somatic Experiencing, is that you only need a finite amount of shaking.  For severe trauma, it may be a lot, but if I can integrate it daily, I will make steady progress.

This makes me happy.  There is an end in sight.

Sunday, June 15, 2014

Trauma, wanderings

I'm probably sharing too much here, but I have come to view this blog as emotionally beneficial.  It may be that people I know read it, a thought which makes me uncomfortable, but the benefits are worth the risk of embarrassment.  Hell, what could be worse than what I've already experienced, and sometimes still do?

Where in school did you learn that unprocessed trauma from your baby years could affect you for life?  I don't remember it, but it seems to be true.

I have awakened something substantial.  If I don't more or less drink myself to sleep, I wake up multiple times a night--something like every 90 minutes--shaking from head to toe.  Apparently, people "with" PTSD have dreams they can't remember, but which wake them up.  I woke up punching the bed repeatedly the other night, and wonder if I was punched as a baby.  One reads stories of mothers smashing their babies skulls on the wall, microwaving them, smothering them.  I have recently noticed PSA signs saying "It's OK to walk away", targeted at mothers of babies whose crying drives them insane.  I know personally how tiring it can be to wake up every half an hour all night, and that is presumably what happened to my mother.

Still, I was allergic to milk, and they kept giving me milk.  I watched her burn 10 pancakes in a row one time.   She is quite able to avoid learning anything she doesn't want to learn.

But this is all very interesting.  It is unexpected.  It is a nice trip into the unknown.  I really wonder how many people wander through life with undiagnosed PTSD from the period when their every last instinct is emotionally and physically exhausting for their mother.  Who tests for this?

Could Multi Dimensional Eye Movement be added to physical exams, to uncover hidden and unsuspected trauma?  I would bet 1 in 10 people have it to some degree.  Is that why Kurt Cobain really killed himself?  What about Hemingway?  Were they fighting demons that were completely invisible to them, other than through the manifestation of pain?

And I got to thinking: logically, if an effect of trauma is a timeless, unchanging state, then could we infer that those incapable of breathing life into their notions about the world are by that very fact indicating some degree of trauma inheres in their beliefs?

Very short transition: leftism.  Classes that don't change.  Historical processes that are abstract, ubiquitous, and inevitable.  Usual suspects.  Clumsy thinking that turns the whole world into a wax museum devoid of personality and ideosyncracy in motion.

Is Leftism the product of trauma, and if so, of what sort?  It is the trauma of grasping, finally, the horror of history, of humankind's very human defiling and murdering of other humans?  Is it the unresolved trauma of the failure of the French or Russian Revolutions to accomplish anything but mass death and misery?

I will add two more things, then conduct my current process (as I think I said, I am going back into counseling, now that the value of abreaction is apparently better understood, again): I had a very unpleasant episode this morning.  I am working very hard, physically, and by and large all alone.  I was heading into a very hard piece of work this morning, in another city, processing memories that had arisen in the night from my baby period, and anticipating another 7 days straight of equally hard work, and it overwhelmed me briefly.  Anyone who has felt severe clinical monopolar depression knows what it feels like.  It is like a panic attack combined with wanting to cry but being unable to.  Your head spins a bit, and this sense of unreality sets in, which makes you feel like you are going to collapse or have a nervous breakdown.  You may just wind up in the looney bin.

No, no, no.  I knew I had to fight it, but something like that you can't battle with will, not directly.  You can suppress many feelings; that is not one of them, not in my experience.

So I went through my inventory.  This list, you see, was created by me for me, and then shared with the world, in that order.

Self pity: not a shred.  I am in fucking pain.

Perseverance: I can do that.  I can always keep going.  A little voice in my head (no, not that sort of voice, just the intuitive kind) said that if I persevered in my work for 10 minutes, the crazy would go away.

Perception: Hell, why not simultaneously encourage the craziness, AND keep moving.  EMDR is basically getting into a state, then adding motion.  That is all trauma is: a state without motion, frozen.

So while consciously increasing my sense of depression, I kept working, and damned if ALL the symptoms didn't disappear in short order.  I worked 9 hours, largely by myself, in an office tower, and I felt and feel fine.  In fact, I have noticed my irritability has decreased.  Things that used to upset me, no longer do so.

I think that most people have all sorts of unresolved trauma that trigger things.  What happens when someone cuts you off in traffic?  Well, of course that can be dangerous, but that is not why you flip out, is it?  Someone just told you you were UNIMPORTANT, you don't matter.   Fuck you, you nobody.

THAT is what creates road rage.  There is a little nexus in there of potent content, and somebody just triggered it.  I am realizing I have all sorts of triggers, that are diminishing as I get at the REAL trauma, the root of all of it.

Couple more thoughts: Spiritual Emergency might be thought of as an extended nervous breakdown with a beneficial end.  As I tend to do, I feel almost everything most Westerners need to do has NOTHING to do with religion or spirituality: we simply need to become human, and many of us fail.  Being human is where spirituality STARTS.

I also wanted to add that unresolved PTSD from the early years is a potent starter or seed for the formation of complex and strong Resonant Constellations, as I call them: it is invisible, real, and affects everything.

Also, of course, the birth process can play a role here as well.  The thing about the birth process is that it is no doubt somewhat traumatizing for every baby, but I think babies that get the love and affection and attention they need get over it in short order. If, however, you add a hard birth to a barren emotional world, that, again, can create problems whose source is unclear that last a lifetime.

If your only tool is a hammer, it is not necessarily that every problem starts to look like a nail, but rather that you only try to solve problems that look like nails.  You ignore the rest.

Until recently, hypnosis was the only mainstream method of getting access to these primitive states.  Therefore, even though I am going to say with confidence the birth to 2 year old period is often a major source of unresolved and life altering trauma, psychologists, and psychiatrists largely ignore it.  Anything they don't know how to treat, they would rather not know about.  It makes them look stupid, and they don't like looking stupid.

Saturday, June 14, 2014

Lois Lerner

The games will continue until she sees the inside of a jail cell. Our target is His Highness, so I ser no reason not to grant her immunity, once she's stewed in a celll long enough to get some clarity.

Eric Holder belongs in jail. Given some balls on the part of Congress, it could and should happen today.

Friday, June 13, 2014

A modest point

I am going to speak Acadamese, which iis like jive, but for people with greatly constrained emotional and social skills.

The narrative "Conservatives essentialize others" is itself an essentializing narrative.

I have made this point before, but thought it worth reitetating.

The halls of our best universities are filled with crappy thinking and emotional infantilism.

There is no idea so stupid that someone smart has never hrld it. People still think Communism is something other than an orgy of horror papered over in comic book thinking.

Time and the Other

This is a book by Johannes Fabian, that I would been responsible for understanding had I continued in graduate school.  Most everyone in some form of cultural studies will have to read this book.

I have not read the book, but am familiar with the thesis: white men want to rule the world and this really sucks because everyone else is better than us.  That's pretty close.  A longer summary is here:

Seriously, the gist of the book as I understand it is that Western culture tends to assume things about cultural Others which are untrue and patronizing, namely that they are culturally static, and absent outside contact tend to remain the same.

Here is the point I want to make: it is debatable whether this is true or not of the West--clearly many military veterans understand Afghans and Iraqis far better than people who have never even been over there--but it is CATEGORICALLY true for leftists.

What got me to thinking about this was the widespread belief among Leftists, then and now, that our retreat from Vietnam--from a war we had won and which only needed maintenance, exactly like Iraq--was a GOOD thing.  They assume that since we were over there shooting people, that this was intrinsically, definitionally, a bad thing.  They assume the Vietnamese were a static, homogeneous, culturally united, peaceful people, and that war only came because of us.

They see, in other words, a picture they have created in their minds, not what is actually there.

Place yourself imaginarily in Mosul at this moment.  There is shooting in the streets. People are being executed.  Women and children are being raped.  Imagine families hiding in terror in their bedrooms, knowing the lock on their front door will never hold.  Imagine children looking to their father for protection, and him knowing he cannot do anything.

This is what Obama has engineered.  This is what he has  created as a policy.

The thing with narcissists is they never see the world as it is.  It could be seen primarily as a perceptual defect, a type of hallucinatory capacity to see things which are not there.  If you simply define America as always an oppressor, then leaving a theater of oppression is a good thing, period.  There is no ambiguity.

But this calculus makes not even a RUDIMENTARY effort at defining the Good, at weighing one option against another.  It does not consider rape and murder to be crimes against humanity.  They are only crimes when committed by one set of predefined, timeless Others against a predefined Us.

This is the very tribalism which Fabian's  book seeks to explore and reduce.   As always with the leftists, they are pursuing in reality the very evil they claim to oppose.

As it often does with me, this becomes personal.  I have a great many emotional scars to heal, and this is one of them.  There is no difference between my mothers refusal to recognize me as I matured--to recognize that I existed in my own Time--and the Left's refusal to recognize the horror and very human suffering they have enabled through their idiotic blindness.

And there is a sadism to all this, underlaying it all.  Obama almost consciously is spitting in the face of our military, who are cultural Others to him, in exactly the Fabian sense, and getting satisfaction from it.  The Left delighted in the torment our chosen retreat from Vietnam caused our veterans.

This is all madness.

The American Soldier

In my previous post I could, of course, have spoken of our war dead, and our war wounded.  Men and women who lost legs, eyes, suffered traumatic brain injuries, or who wake up screaming every night, and whose spouses rightly fear them.

I feel the pain of these people too.  But what I want to speak to, the people I want to speak for, who are never spoken for because they are the least whiny human beings on the planet, are all those who WORKED, hard, for a very long time, who stayed up all night many nights, poring over maps, analyzing intercepts, who CARED about getting this thing right, about winning the war not just because it was their job, but because it was the right thing to do.  These people come back home, get civilian jobs, and largely disappear.  "You were in Iraq?",  "Yes, ma'am, in 2005-2006, and again in 2010-2011."

I just feel horror at looking at all this waste, this willful, unnecessary waste of human energy and talent.

This is another variant of PTSD: the bitterness of watching what you gave your life to torn apart and scattered.  That, I guess, is the use of Kipling.  I have If on my wall.

Thursday, June 12, 2014


Goddamn it.  Goddamnit.  Fuck Fuck Fuck.

These people are going to cut off at least hundreds and probably thousands of heads.  They are going to start a war with Iran, and turn the Iraqi cultural landscape into an arid, spirit-less desert.  They are going to assert their misogyny vigorously.  Death and destruction, hate and fear follow them wherever they go.

From all I hear, the Iraqi military is filled with pussies, and the Iraqi government has disarmed the populace.  Baghdad will likely fall.

Within a couple months, Obama will have stood and watched the vitiation of all the work our soldiers did in Iraq, and established the basis of the failure of our work in Afghanistan.  The parallels with Vietnam are uncanny.  In Vietnam, we clearly, unambiguously, beyond any doubt, beyond any debate, factually, won the war in the South.  If further evidence were needed, it comes handily in the form of the fact that the Easter invasion was led by tanks provided by the Soviets that originated openly in the North.  So too did the final invasion in 1974-1975.

Yes, of course the amoral whores who run our press have suppressed general understanding of these facts, and even more critically, an understanding of the MEANING of these facts.

We won in Iraq.  Then we lost.

We won in Afghanistan.  But now we will likely lose.

I am tired, irritable, and maybe have some  vodka in a cup next to me, but I want to offer a general statement that feels right to me.  Shit, I'm going to do all caps, and give it a carriage return


I know soldiers.  I talk with them.  I sympathize with them.  I'm a working class joe who rubs elbows with sheet rockers and painters every day.  I like ordinary people.  I respect them.  I don't like intellectuals, as a rule.

And goddamn it if they are not getting fucking screwed.  I have no personal idea how hard these soldiers, sailors, airmen marines worked, but 16 hour days for a year straight is probably a good guess for most of them.  I know a nice, easy schedule is 12 on/12 off with the Navy.  7 days a week, for the duration of your deployment.

Obama DOES NOT GIVE A SHIT.  I have said this elsewhere several times in the past few days, with regard to his dumping of illegal aliens other than back in Mexico: he values nothing.  I have said he values power.  But that is a craving, a "sehnsucht", to use an apposite German word.  It is not something he values, cares about.  It is simply a defining aspect of his insanity, his craziness, his poorly constructed reconciliation with unprocessed trauma.  He does not love Americans.  He does not love Valerie Jarrett or even his own children.  There is no love there.  There is only the horror of emotionally detached abstraction.

Perhaps that glass of vodka has shrunk.  Let me ask this question: ISIS--Islamic State in Iraq and Syria--originate in Syria.  Did we arm these mother fuckers?  Did we give them guns, ammo, jeeps, APG's?

We know Obama has been arming blood thirsty savages in Syria.  Were these some of them?

Was this invasion part of the plan?  Should some little bird have warbled in our ear when Obama talked about how sweet the sound of the muezzin was?

Oh, the birds have been shrieking at us like hysterical monkeys for some time.  

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Soothing music

I was talking with someone today about Alison Krauss, and how amazingly soothing her voice is, and it occurred to me that I filled my children's childhood with soothing music.  We listened to the soundtrack to "Oh, Brother where art thou" over and over.  We listened to a LOT of Alison Krauss.  That was about all we listened to in the car for a year or two.  We rotated three albums.  We listened to the album I'm listening to now, Hem's "Funnel Cloud".  We listened to the soundtrack to "Secret of Roan Inish".  That track is delightful.  Highly recommended.  We listened to a lot of Alan Jackson.

Music is a water you swim in. It is an atmosphere you imbibe.  It fills you, and if it does not quite define you, it affects you, it alters you, it moves you towards or away from balance, wholeness, and emotional satiety and happiness.

Ponder where you go musically, and if you have children, ponder how you make their water both soothing and enriching.

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Monetary Reform proposal simplified.

I am getting to where this thing is simple.  That in my view is good.

All of our economic problems would be solved in short order and permanently if people simply grasped that the root of our trouble is the existence of two classes: those with the ability to create money, and those who cannot. Those with access to free money will always prosper relative to those who have to earn it.
The solution is simple. Use the Fed to pay off all American debt: all private debt, all corporate debt, all municipal, State and Federal debt. This can be done easily, as there are no restrictions, now, on the Feds ability to create money.
Require banks to have 100% reserves, and to make money solely by charging for checking accounts, by making a spread on CD's, and by processing electronic payments.
All dollars in existence that were not created as loans remain in existence.
The value of the dollar and of every hour worked by an American will steadily increase. Monetary deflation--which is really a misnomer, as the value, which is what we should care about, is increasing, not decreasing--is not a danger if there is no debt.
We end the Fed, and enjoy continual and widely distributed prosperity. We never alter the quantity of money again. We pass a Balanced Budget Amendment, which requires all wars to be actually funded by tax increases, making their true costs transparent and obvious to all.
This is simple, but it requires a radical rethinking of economics. This is compounded by the problem that most Marxists are really suffering from profound emotional psychopathology, and not actually seeking solutions to real economic problems; rather, they seek in policy relief from the misery their distorted, warped world view causes them.

I would append to this that the economic use of gold would be radically altered in this proposal.  If there is no inflation, there is no economic need for gold.  We could sell off the vaults of Fort Knox and the New York Fed (if anything is still there; and if it isn't we could find out who took it and put them in jail, if they are still alive) for use in jewelry.  That would fund a lot of government activities, one would think.

I really think this would work.  I have yet to receive substantive criticism of this proposal from people who show evidence of having read and understood it.  It has of course been misunderstood many times.

To be great is to be misunderstood


I have this on my wall, as I am misunderstood multiple times each day.  I don't know that I am great, but I am certainly misunderstood.  In fact, I can't recall ever being understood with regard to any of my more complex ideas.

One must have some ego to keep slugging, and this is one bit I grant myself.


One thing I have found that consistently lifts my mood is, after I take my shower, taking some unscented lotion, adding 5-10 drops of Essential Oils to it, mixing it up, and spreading it across my chest.  I particularly like Rosemary, Basil, Lime, Orange, Grapefruit, and Lemongrass.  Putting them in an aromalamp always seems like a waste, since you have to use so much to get any effect, but this way you have that smell for at least a few hours.

There is no reason not to seek comfort in small things.  You may smell funny, but unless it's going to cost you your job, fuck it.

Complex trauma

This could be added to my previous post, but I don't have the emotional energy for it.  In any event, I think it sufficient unto itself.

To the whole discussion of trauma must be added the complex trauma.  It seems to be a fact that those most traumatized by war--or anything else--were already traumatized.  People who start with emotional problems find them exacerbated by war.

Many vets who are alcoholics started out that way.

Life being what it is, shit can be additive.  Things can get stuck on other things.  This is what Stan Grof calls Condensed Experience, or CoEx, and what I call a Resonant Constellation.

Unresolved childhood grief can get aggregated with lost comrades in arms. Unresolved childhood terror can get added to battlefield terror.

So therapy for battle induced PTSD may also need to include therapy for other things as well.  The same logic applies though: what works for the one, will work for the other.

Stay in the fight.  Success is inevitable over some time domain.

Open letter to veterans with PTSD

Trauma and Recovery, Part 1

I would like to offer a message of honest hope for veterans suffering from PTSD, and their spouses.  I would like, specifically, to offer a plan of attack that may be better than the one you are pursuing now.

I myself was recently diagnosed with “severe, complex, PTSD with dissociation”, as a result of a series of as-yet unremembered events that happened to me or that I was a part of some time before age 2.

This diagnosis is about as bad as it gets in the trauma domain, but it fills me with optimism and confidence in the future, for many reasons.

First and foremost, this diagnosis was only made possible by therapeutic advances, specifically a technique called Multi-Dimensional Eye Movement, which itself is a part of a larger method called “Emotional Transformation Therapy”.  20 years ago, when I did seek out therapy, there was nothing that could have touched this, much less helped resolve it.

Secondly, it allows me to give a name to a feeling I have not been able to name.  One of the aspects of unresolved trauma is a sense of emotional disconnection.  If you have PTSD, you know what I am talking about.  You feel like you are going crazy, and you don’t know why.  You can’t run from it, but you can hide from it in alcohol and drugs and other distractions.  In my own case, I have managed it with a relentless application of will, but this saps psychic energy that can be put to better uses.

This disconnectedness is one aspect of trauma; the other is the “intrusion”, the flashback, the inability to stop seeing images, smelling smells, hearing things, thinking thoughts, and feeling again things from long ago.  This is the classic PTSD symptom.

Here is the good news: if you can remember what it is that is bothering you, very good techniques exist now to treat it.  If you have not tried Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, you should.

And before I describe it, let me make an important point: the default therapies the VA offers, at least in my understanding, are not only largely useless, they in many cases make things worse.  They are fifty year old techniques that should be discarded, but socialized medicine makes progress difficult.  Specifically, they use what are called exposure, or immersion, or in vitro methods, which ask you to go through the memories or triggering stimuli over and over.  This is stupid.  The goal is to PROCESS the trauma, go through the trauma, so that you can make it go away.  It is not to retraumatize you over and over.

And another piece of good news is that you can almost certainly self fund your own therapeutic journey. Most of the new methods allow for tremendous progress in as little as 1 2 hour session.  I paid $150/hour for 6 hours of therapy, and that $900 was some of the smartest money I ever spent.  Any serious alcoholic is spending at least $60-$100/week on booze, so if you can get off the bottle your payback on this investment is rapid.

And what you are doing is getting rid of the very valid and understandable reasons you drink.  If you go to an AA meeting, you will see a lot of vaguely sad people who miss their old friend, but had to quit because it was killing them and their relationships.  In my view, most all of them have untreated PTSD, likely from things they can’t even remember.  What you are doing here is treating the root of the problem.

This is good news as well because the VA takes forever to treat people anyway.  So ignore them.  Ignore what insurance you do or do not have.  Pay cash.

And if you don’t have somebody local, schedule a trip to go somewhere, and book 2-5 days of 2 hour sessions.  Your sanity, your mental health is worth it.  This is a battle, and this is the battle plan.

Returning to EMDR, you have perhaps heard the idea that trauma permanently rewires your brain.  It appears to be true that it rewires the brain, but not true that that damage cannot be undone.  EMDR exists specifically to facilitate new connections, so as to enable the processing of trauma, and cessation or substantial mitigation of symptoms.

And the techniques as I have experienced them are simplicity itself.  First off, while you are talking with the therapist, he or she will give you a headset that puts alternating tones in your ears; and combine this with little modules that vibrate alternately, that you put on your hands.  This helps balance the brain hemispheres, and facilitates processing of information, with trauma merely being painful information.

What you will do is establish a hierarchy of traumas, and if you can remember everything that bothers you—I can’t, which will make my own treatment a bit trickier—then you are in an excellent position.  As I understand the process, you can either start with the least traumatizing memory, or most.  Which is chosen will depend on you and your therapist. 

And the therapist will then take out a stick about 18” long, with a color on the end, and simply move it back and forth horizontally, and ask you to follow it with your eyes as you think about that memory.  If your experience is anything like mine, this will elicit a powerful reaction.  You might shake, you might feel deep sadness, you might feel terror, or disgust, or nausea.  And it will build.  It will get larger and larger, then it will crescendo, and dissipate.  And you will then close your eyes, take a deep breath, and sit there as long as you need to to let the feeling subside.

As I understand it, with simple trauma—which is to say single traumatizing events that you can remember—a couple run throughs of this may be sufficient to make the intrusions disappear permanently.  My therapist said she has often gotten substantial resolution in a single session.

And I want to be clear, this is really not “talk therapy” in a classical sense, where the therapist starts out “tell me about your mother”.  It is not confessional, and you don’t have to sit there endlessly talking about feelings.  Many rightly fear this as useless.

It is task oriented.  It is “what are the problems”, then the implementing of a solution.  It is efficient in a great many, perhaps most, cases.

And there is an add-on therapy for unresolved grief.  According to my therapist, PTSD among veterans in particular is often oriented around mourning the deaths of comrades, or mourning the deaths of those they have killed.  It is the survivor guilt.

The solution for this in many cases—75% is the number the founder has been using—is a modified EMDR called Induced After Death Communication.  I have not personally experienced this, but the gist of it is that it enables a brief contact with the dead person, a brief communication, the substance of which is usually “I am alright.  I am fine.  Let me go.”

And it does not matter what your beliefs are.  If you are an atheist, that is fine.  Many veterans who have benefited from this technique were skeptical, but left with tremendous relief.  I will post a link to a video on this at the end of this where they discuss their experience.

And it would be foolish of me to say that this one method will help everyone.  But what I want to say is that methods have advanced, and that I have absolute confidence that if you persevere, you will prevail over your demons. 

There is the Multi-Dimensional Eye Movement I mentioned.  This consists in creating a bundle of colored wooden sticks—each color has a meaning and target—and slowly moving the bundle through your range of vision until something is triggered.  In my own case, I triggered a deep feeling of sadness, and the image of blood on the floor.  I still don’t know what it was, but it was powerful, very real, and unsuspected.  It was probably the most therapeutically useful thing that has ever happened to me. 

Then the therapist will slowly rotate the wands to see if one direction or the other relieves that feeling.  Then he or she will move it away from you, which creates relief.  This is a way of directly contacting traumas and releasing them.

There is a light therapy which is also a part of Emotional Tranformation that is apparently very useful.  Again, this is not talk therapy.  This is getting at synapses and allowing them to self correct.  Our brains have a powerful ability to regenerate.

There is Somatic Experiencing, which is something I am looking at.  Prey animals in the wild often experience violence.  They will be chased by some predator, get away, then shake for a while, then allow that fear to dissipate completely.  Despite spending their lives at risk of sudden death, they remain relaxed.  This shaking apparently helps resolve trauma.

Part of my own therapy for some time has been doing what I can to help others and improve the world.   I know firsthand the pain that PTSD causes, and this letter is written in the hope of helping some person get through it, and to bring relief both to them and their loved ones who care for them, but are largely helpless.

You are not helpless.  This is the substance of what I am saying.  It is my understanding the VA, unless things have changed--and the news in the last month makes this seem doubtful--is worse than useless.  Your insurance does not matter.  You can and should seek out effective treatment modalities.  They exist, and you have access to them over some period of time.

I wish you all the best!!!

Video with veterans who used IADC:
Emotional Transformation Therapy:
 Somatic Experiencing:

P.S. If you know anyone with emotional problems, they may be the result of unresolved trauma and grief.  Please forward this link to them.  Also, of course, if you know anyone who certainly has PTSD.  This world is filled with bullshit.  I am doing what little I can to help address this.

The inner circle

I found this column interesting:

It does feel like there is a certain Zeitgeist of awakening, of renewed possibility that the trance into which large sections of our intelligentsia fell perhaps 60 years ago may be weakening.

For my part, I simply want to point out that all Communist coups--as I point out from time to time, revolution has almost never been an appropriate word--consist in a very small cadre using deceit and violence to control a much larger mass of people who think they share a common cause.   Fernandez uses the metaphor of the Matryoshka dolls, and that works for me.

You have cadres within cadres within cadres.  Only the aspiring despot and a small circle know the full plan.  They use a broad base of support to eliminate political enemies, then narrow the circle of enemies to include people who thought they were on board, but weren't (as Fernandez notes).

There were genuine democrats marching with Lenin.  Until Ho had them killed, there were genuine nationalists in Vietnam.  Castro and Mao no doubt marched with people who truly thought good things were in store.

And so with the Democrats.  It is getting harder and harder to reconcile allegiance to this cult with common decency, the law, and representative democracy.


These two stories do not seem to be getting enough coverage.

First, soldiers apparently had standing orders to shoot Bergdahl on sight, and were subsequently made to sign Non-disclosure agreements, in what it has become obvious is a constant pattern with Obama.  Here is one link:

Second, here is the likely reason: he was actively collaborating with the enemy:

Now, it is quite possible both that he deserted his post and came to regret it.  It is easy for stupid people to create fantasies of how it will be on "the other side", some imaginary place they have created--I have done it myself--but reality has a tendency to be what it is, and not what you hoped it would be.

His Afghan buddy was killed.  He was no doubt violently treated and feared for his life for some time.  It may be that he shared what military knowledge he had to help save his skin.

But the fact remains that he CHOSE to desert his post, to go over to the enemy, and that all that flowed from this decision.

Obama is no friend of America, or the American soldier.  He does not value or appreciate their sacrifices, or understand their idealism.  If any further proof were needed, chewing bubble gum at the 70th anniversary of D-day was quite sufficient.

Obama is making a lot of mistakes right now--or rather his handlers are, Valerie Jarrett, and the people whose names we are not allowed to know.  They seemingly thought Bergdahl's release would get the VA atrocity off the news, and it did, but if anything this is worse.  He took illegal action which will clearly heat up the war in Afghanistan roughly a week after announcing our withdrawal.

He's apparently on student loans now.  I have not read up on this, but based on the headlines that is not trending well either.  We all need to be clear that there is no moral compass in this Administration.  There is only a hunger for power and control.

Monday, June 9, 2014


This diagnosis has been liberating for me because, paradoxically, it proves I'm not crazy.  All of the psychic work it takes to be me, to get through an average day, has an origin, has a cause, and even if the exact cause cannot be found, an approximate cure can and will be.

But in sitting down for my first Kum Nye practice in a week or so, it occurs to me that our world is inundated with trauma, drowning in it, swimming in it.  Substantially every person on every street has some unresolved trauma, has some invisible force within them pushing them in unhelpful directions.

I don't recall if I have commented on this, but I wonder what Islamic child rearing practices are like.  It is a very misogynistic religion: what sort of relations do young boys have with their mothers?  At what age is physical punishment introduced?  Are boys breast fed?  How are they potty trained?

And for that matter, do Leftist practices differ from those of conservatives?  It is hard to believe they would, it is easiest to assign these differences to cognitive differences and environmental programming, but COULD there be a difference?

It opens up a Pandora's box to start to take psychodynamic considerations down to the primitive, to the infant level, but in my own experience I have found they are crucially important.

If we are going to build a truly better society, rather than a hell papered over in pastel and flowers, we have to start to look at all aspects of our cultural lives.  We have to grasp the ENORMITY of our collective failure, how much better this world could be than it is.  We have to understand that most people are thralls of experiences and fears that are largely invisible to them.

I think one could argue that religions evolved to keep people sane, to provide a web of meaning enabling them to surmount their traumas, and that ideologies serve the same purpose.

But this sanity is relative.  It comes at the cost of an unblemished capacity to see truth as it is, to see what is in front of one's eyes, to adapt usefully and easily.  It merely creates a world within which one can live and breathe, procreate and die.  It is not the territory, though; nor is it a very accurate map in most cases, in my view.

We can do so much better.

Sunday, June 8, 2014

Tower 7 foreknowledge

A report has come out noting that even  the very flimsy, implausible NIST version of the Tower 7 collapse omitted structural supports which were in fact there, making even the flaming curtains hypothesis untenable.

It further notes that even though the collapse of structural steel was the defining feature of what they themselves note would be the first skyscraper collapse EVER due to fire, none of the steel was examined.  They also, of course, failed to test for thermite, but that is old news.

Finally, they note that many reports in the news media were talking of an impending collapse for hours before it happened.  Here is the point I wanted to make: this story started somewhere, and that somewhere was someone involved in the conspiracy.  It is not impossible that someone with sufficient dedication could track back to the first report, and see where it came from.

Self evidently (in my version of things), when United 93 failed to show up, the people who had rigged that building to blow had a problem.  If it were left intact, the bombs would over some period of time be found.  They could not all be removed.

But 47 story skyscrapers don't just collapse.  They figured they had to prep the media, and so they did.  Then they blew it, to cover their tracks. 

And our media is so craven and incompetent that by and large they have gotten away with it to this very moment.

Saturday, June 7, 2014

Go again

If I had to pick a personal motto, this would be it.  I operate according to a very simple decision tree: try something, then ask if it worked.  If not, then "go again".  This will apply until the problem is solved or I die. Those are the only two options.  (self evidently, I vary my methods as it seems warranted: the point I want to make is that there is always another effort of some sort, and the need for this absolute and inviolable.)

In my sessions with the therapist, I was getting very powerful abreactions--shaking, involuntary vocalizations, powerful feelings of sadness and anger--and we just kept going.  She'd elicit a reaction, I'd go, it would subside, and I'd say go again.  Her word for my pain tolerance was "unnatural".  I take this as a compliment.

As I think I have mentioned, I have started drawing a Tarot card for each week.  Today I drew the 5 of Swords for the second time in about 6 weeks, which is as long as I've been doing it.  Odds: less than 1 in 10.

What I am finding is that these cards are interpreted many different ways by many people.  This means I can interpret it any damn way I want, and if it is helpful psychologically, then so much the better.

If you look at the picture, you see the figure has picked up his sword, and those of his comrades.  They are in despair.  They have given up.  He knows better.  He is going to get them back in the fight.  This is the Go Again card.  Fuck the odds, fuck the past.  Go again.

I will add as far as Tarot generally that this is a very interesting practice even if you don't believe anything more is going on than pictures popping up.  All of us have a great deal of deep, latent content.  If you doubt this just read up on the work of Janet and all the things he could do with hypnosis.  I see the claim made occasionally--presumably by people suffering from some degree of emotional dissociation and following hyperintellectualism--that the unconscious does not exist.  This is patent bullshit.  We are oceans: some calm, some stormy, most a bit of both.  And that is fine.  It is as it should be.  We can all learn to swim, and to build boats.  That is and has been my work.

Friday, June 6, 2014


I am going to offer unsolicited opinion (as usual): TV's in private bedrooms are a terrible idea, but particularly for kids.  In my personal view, one TV per home is sufficient.  That means that people sit down together to watch TV, or they don't watch it.

An important part of maintaining familial connection is interaction, and that interaction is greatly muted when the kids can "hide" in their rooms, even if they are not consciously avoiding other family members.

Statistically it is my understanding that American parents spend far less time with their kids than other cultures, and surely that is one reason TV has in some important respects replaced them in implanting values and a sense of the world and their place in it.  That TV, by and large, is run by propagandists, both social and political.  Never forget this.

And never forget one of the values it is teaching is that parents are stupid, and that rebellion is cool.

Thought Experiment

Imagine we gave MMPI's to all members of Congress, the President and everyone around him, and the members of the Supreme Court. How many would need to leave office if they had to be in the upper 50% of the population to serve? Would any doubt remain why we have the proplems we do?

The diagnosis

Severe, complex PTSD with dissociation, with the cause unknown events before the age of 2.

This is pretty much a worst case scenario for PTSD.  Methods for dealing with it have only been developed in that past couple decades.

Having said that, this fills me with optimism, confidence and hope.  It is fantastic news.  I have a name, and a route to follow.  I have a path which I am confident will lead me to more or less full recovery, or at least substantial mitigation of symptoms.

Now, this is highly personal, and nobody's damn business, but I share this for a couple reasons.

First, anyone who has been reading this blog for a while knows I have some emotional problems.  I have a powerful will and a very strong mind, so I can self correct.  But simply existing is work for me and always has been.

Second, I want to offer an example for any readers I may have who suffer from, or know people who suffer from addictions.

Here is the thing: I believe I understand fully why people take heroin, why Russell Brand took heroin, why Phillip Seymour Hoffman chose to end his life with heroin.

There are traumas you can't name, you can't pull up.  There are gaps in emotional development that happen that no normal therapist can identify, much less heal.  "Substances" like alcohol, like heroin, like pills, come to seem like reliable friends.  You can trust them.

And so too with "addictions" like sexual addiction, or video game addiction, or gambling, or workaholism: they take you out of that place you can neither name, face, nor escape.

I want people to know therapies do exist, now, which can help you face and process these traumas.

Missing from the psychotherapeutic arsenal has been treatments for very early childhood.  Holotropic Breathwork can certainly help, but what I experienced was very targeted, and very useful.

But there are very, very few therapists trained in these methods.  Think about this: my trauma is very likely nothing more complicated thanfeeling the terror of my mother hating me for crying too much because I had colic: how common must this be?
I think often of the black community, because that is where much of the misery in this country is concentrated.  How often must these teenage girls fail to bond properly with their  babies?  How often must other children have felt and feel what I did?  I think it is extremely common.  This should give us pause.  Decent human beings--Liberals, not leftists--should wonder how we can start to undo all the damage all around us.

We start with ourselves.  That is what I am doing.

And as a link, MDEM is a part of Emotional Transformation Therapy:

It is not normally a long term process, so you could literally book a vacation to go see one of these therapists, and do 2-3 sessions in a week, and leave feeling substantially better.  Just pay cash, if your insurance doesn't cover it.

I will add as well that my therapist--this is her website --said that the most common methods used by the VA (immersion/exposure/in vitro therapy) in most cases either don't help, or make things worse.  If you are a veteran suffering from PTSD, first off, I can now honestly say I feel your pain, and secondly, you should avoid the VA.  Pay cash for treatment with MDEM and/or EMDR. Believe it or not, your symptoms can be dealt with quickly and effectively in the vast bulk of cases.  If you suffer from intruding thoughts/feelings/images/smells/sounds, then EMDR can fix that quickly in nearly all cases.  If you suffer from traumatic grief at the death of a buddy, or from having killed, then Induced After Death Communication--which is a modification of EMDR--reportedly brings nearly instantaneous relief in about 70% of cases, and it doesn't matter in the slightest if you walk in completely convinced there is no afterlife.

A case can be made that this blog, and my website, and all my other output, is an extended reaction formation.  This would be partly true. But I think it has been my choice to deal with my trauma THIS WAY.  I could just as easily have been destructive, or indifferent.  I have chosen a path of what I consider to be service.  I suffer, so I try to help others who suffer, and this reduces my pain.  As I gain in emotional flexibility and wisdom, my work will be more effective.  One must always keep in mind that even if you are trying to help, you may be hurting, and that is certainly true of me.  Very, very often your best option is to do nothing.  People need to be allowed to fight their own fights, so they can win their own victories.